My mother was exasperated when I told his I had tried medical marijuana. I had a sad condition that caused my hands to shake uncontrollably. Sometimes my spouse helped me eat, because I could not hold the spoon or fork still enough to get the food into my mouth. He often joked with me that this was not the way to lose weight, however it didn’t make me feel any better. It just made me realize how much he loved me. When my mom lit into me about using medical marijuana, I told his how my shaking was better when using medical marijuana. I could control my shaking much better. I hadn’t needed help to eat in almost a month. She told me he would have blissfully helped feed me, however that wasn’t the point. I wasn’t a child who needed spoon fed. I was an adult who was supposed to eat by myself. I didn’t want the help, but I wanted his to support my decision to help myself. My spouse accepted it when I told him I wanted to try medical marijuana, as well as he had to accept it too. She wasn’t blissful as well as said he would rather I was shaking than using medical marijuana. She told me that until I started thinking more about his than about myself; he didn’t want me in his house. I was consistently going to put me first, because if I could not be me, I would not be fantastic for anyone. My spouse told me to relax as well as mom would come around in a couple of weeks. He didn’t know mom as well as I did. She thought marijuana was the devil’s tool, as well as he would never forgive me.