I remember so clearly the first time I got into an argument with our fiance! We had only been together for a few weeks after marrying right out of private school.
We were both girls, even though the two of us didn’t guess it at the time, and the two of us both had a lot of growing up to do, then that first argument was about marijuana, a topic that had literally never come up before. I was at a random celebration, having some drinks, and tried smoking a joint for the first time, then my fiance was furious I had used medical cannabis, and I was confused as to why she was so miserable; of course at that time medical cannabis use was still completely illegal, but I still didn’t guess why it made her miserable. I still feel about it often, because I still don’t understand why anyone would get so frustrated about medical cannabis, and even though medical cannabis was illegal for decades, at no point was it immoral or even evil. It is impossible for a plant to be evil, quite frankly, and when someone gets visibly frustrated at something like medical cannabis, it tells myself and others that person has problems. My fiance and I split up soon after that, and she mistakenly told people that our divorce was because of medical cannabis. It really wasn’t about that at all, medical cannabis was just the flashpoint. The truth is that the two of us divorced because she was so worried about myself and others smoking medical cannabis that it showed myself and others a different, ugly side of her, and I definitely no longer wanted to spend our life with her.